Whew.
This is a loaded topic.
Especially if you are busy with professional women who try to do everything.
After all, every woman knows that if she does everything correctly she is perfect in all the ways she deserves love and get the love you want.
Bullshit!
Being perfect will not love you.
In fact, trying to be perfect will make you moody. It makes it difficult for others to be around you. This makes you one of the most difficult people to love.
So stop looking for perfection!
Instead, embrace your flaws.
What makes women strive for perfection?
To embrace your glorious flaws and love, you must first understand what drives you towards perfection.
In one word: fear.
Since women, in general, and highly skilled professional women, the first fear that drives our pursuit of perfection is the fear that it will not be good enough.
The judgment of others is insufficient:
· Mom.
· Employer.
· Working woman.
· wife.
· Sister.
daughter.
Self-governance is not good enough as:
· Person!
Yikes!
For many women, the fear of not being good enough came from people we loved or looked for who wanted us to be, do or have more. Although he seemed innocent and was put into good-faith sheep clothes, the wolf in our wake disturbs our self-confidence and the mistrust of self and others.
For other women, self-confidence is neither a model nor a value. As a result, "perfection" means being like someone else who has heard him praise his perfection.
In either case, "status, condition, or quality being free or free of all defects or defects," as defined in the Merriam-Webster Dictionary, is ideal ideal.
Why being perfect is bad for you
You miss out on RREP & A.
This is comfort, recovery, ease, peace and acceptance.
As professional women's crafts, we need RREP & A.
Without them, we:
R stands for concern,
R means relapse in bad health
E stands for embarrassment, become
P stands for her panic and
Stands for concern.
When that happens, we suffer from adrenal fatigue, hormonal imbalances, and become pessimistic with others.
Three steps to embrace your beautiful flaws
Step 1: Love Yourself.
The first step is the hardest. This is a step that opens any cracks you have to resist for the next steps.
First love yourself. You should simply. There is no beating around Bush about it. So, I'll go straight down about it: Without self-love, there's no love. I know. This is a great one to swallow.
Here's how: One afternoon, roll on a couch with a cup of tea, a piece of paper, and your favorite pen. Start by making a list of all the things you have accomplished in your life. The menu is all great and small.
Wonderful! right? Look at how much you've done! It's so cool!
Now, read the list and acknowledge everything you have accomplished. Let it sink. The first step to embracing your beautiful flaws is to first love yourself.
Step 2: Take care of your love.
What is this?
This means respecting and honoring your body and emotions. And to spend some time honoring and honoring the body and emotions of the privileged people in your life. All your other children, friends and dear friends all have to cherish.
Here's how to do this: Feed your body with good food, trust your intuition, talk about your truth, respect the truth of others, respect one another's body, and support each other in satisfying your needs in healthy ways.
Step 3: I like your flaws.
The essence of this article is to be aware that your flaws are, in fact, ideal and unique perfect. They're what makes you out of you. They are as individual as snow and precious as diamonds. Incubate your diamonds and snow.
Your drawbacks are your lessons. Think of them as guides on the path of achievement.
Here's how to do this: Remember the list that you created in step 1? Look at that menu. Choose five proud to accomplish. Write it on five separate pieces of paper. Then, mention the "mistakes" you made along the way that made you achieve your achievements.
We see? Every "mistake" was just a starting point for your amazing achievements.
I love your flaws. Embrace them. Honor them for the way they helped them to become the self-confident and self-confident woman you know yourself. Your perfect love is liberating. Gives you permission to relieve yourself and relax a bit. Follow these three steps and embrace your flaws now. It will free you from rising within a loving inner space.
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